So it is your choice whether u want to keep struggling to be happy while inviting unhappiness and sorrow which is the other side of the same coin or stop chasing happiness in the outer world and be content and aware of what u already have ‘within’ for which there is no need to chase anything anywhere because it is already there -‘always’- and once u are established there, there is no other side of it like the coin because it is infinite.
So to keep hanging between happiness and unhappiness is what most of the people do who never try to look ‘within’ and thus live on the surface moving in circle following illusory path to no avail . while if you are alert and aware with all the sincerity to inquire in to life u will notice this pattern of happiness and unhappiness and that knowledge itself will bring in radical change from moving in the circle or on the surface to the deeper layer towards the center from where everything originates flawless as well as endless.
Thanks
Harshad Shah